One Question đź’Š, to Break Anxious Thoughts

– Friday Reset –

You know that mental loop? The one that replays the awkward moment or spirals into 12 worst-case scenarios?

There's a name for it: rumination. And here's a tiny trick that cuts right through it:

Ask yourself: "Is this helpful?"

Not: is this true? Not: is this possible? Not: is this important?

Just: Is this helpful?

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Why this works:

Most anxious thoughts fail the "helpful" test immediately. Your brain gets the message: This isn't serving me right now.

What to do when the answer is "no":

  • Take one deep breath

  • Gently shift to something concrete: a task, a walk, a song, a snack

  • Return to now

🔆 Invitation for Today 🔆

Catch one rumination spiral. Ask the question. Let it go. “Helpful” is your ultimate compass.

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